Braking News with Brian: Parent Survival Guide

Have you ever experienced the worry of watching your teenage daughter drive away for the very first time? Or the horror of sitting in the passenger seat while your son barrels through a red traffic light at 45 mph, with nothing but The Fast and the Furious in his eyes? How about the household budget— bankrupt by the gas card charges, auto insurance policy, and keeping the mechanic and body shop on retainer?  

Us parents need to be aware of what our teenagers are doing while driving. We can’t just take our teens at their word when we ask “Are you driving safe? Is the car OK?” Chances are, they’ll say yes, even if the evidence says otherwise. A little parental detective work can go a long way.  

Let me give you a few cases I’ve uncovered over the years: 

While servicing a car, I noticed the right rear tire was completely bald, while the other three were still in great shape. After some “Magnum P.I.”-style sleuthing, I discovered that the owner’s teenage son was the driver of the car. Since the car was rear-wheel-drive, it was clear he had a love for jackrabbit starts and the sweet smell of burning rubber. 

Another telltale sign: check the edges and sidewalls of your tires. You may at one time have had nice white lettered tires on your SUV before your teenager started driving, but now, those white letters are gone, as well as the outer treads. In my experience, this usually means your young driver has been curb-checking at the fast-food drive-thru and then flying into turns like their favorite NASCAR driver. 

The bottom line: make it a habit to see what your teens are doing in the car. They won't always tell you if something's wrong because they know if the car goes into the shop, then they don’t get to drive. If they don’t get to drive, for some that means riding the dreaded school bus! There goes their reputation. 

Our teens may have their motives, but so do we. We want them safe. We love them, and even if their driving gives us a few more gray hairs, keeping an eye on the little clues can help us all survive the ride!